Am i called? – Our Shared Faith

“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! Have you ever felt like you’re stuck in a pit of self-doubt, questioning your very existence? Like, am I really called to serve the King of Kings? Do I have what it takes to be part of His Kingdom?

I know I’m not alone in this struggle. Many of us have been there at some point or another – feeling like we’re just winging it, pretending to be something we’re not. It’s as if the enemy whispers sweet nothings in our ears: “You’re not good enough,” “You’re not worthy,” or
“You’re just a fake Christian.” Ouch! Those words can pierce our souls and leave us feeling like we’re just a leaf blowing in the wind, unsure of where to land.

But here’s the thing: God is NOT fooled by our doubts. He knows our hearts better than we do. And yet, He still chooses to use us, despite our flaws and fears. Why? Because He is gracious! He is a good Father who desires to help us overcome these struggles, to guide us into
His Kingdom.

“And without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to Him must believe that He exists and that He rewards those who earnestly seek Him.” (Hebrews 11:6)

You see, seeking God isn’t just about feeling good or having a nice experience; it’s about surrendering our lives to His will. It’s about trusting that He has a plan for us, even when we can’t see it. And sometimes, that plan involves feeling uncertain or unsure.

“For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways, declares the Lord. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My knowledge is greater than human knowledge.” (Isaiah 55:8-9)

So, what do we do when doubts creep in? We must choose to believe that God is good, that He is a loving Father who desires to help us. We must trust that His plans are perfect, even when they don’t make sense to us.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.” (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Here’s a secret: God is gentle. Yes, you read that right – gentle! He doesn’t shout at us or scold us for our doubts. Instead, He whispers words of encouragement, reminding us of His promises.

“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.” (Isaiah 41:10)

So, if you’re struggling to believe that you’re called for His Kingdom, here’s what I want you to do:

Admit your doubts: Don’t try to hide them or pretend they don’t exist. Acknowledge them and talk to God about them.
Remind yourself of God’s character: He is a good Father who desires to help us overcome our struggles.
Seek Scripture: Look up verses that remind you of His love, His power, and His goodness.
Pray for guidance: Ask Him to reveal Himself to you in ways that will help you trust Him more.
Trust the process: Don’t try to rush through your doubts; instead, allow God to work on your heart and mind.

“And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.” (Romans 8:28)

Remember, you are not alone in this struggle. Many of us have walked this path before, and yet, God has used it to mold us into the people He desires us to be.

So, take a deep breath and trust that God is calling you for His Kingdom. Yes, there may be struggles along the way, but with Him by your side, you can overcome anything.

“I can do all this through Him who gives me strength.” (Philippians 4:13)

And when doubts creep in, just whisper these words back to God: “I trust You, Lord. Help me believe that I’m called for Your Kingdom.”

God is waiting with open arms, ready to guide you into His Kingdom. Will you take the first step and trust Him?

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! I am not sure about others but I have difficulty in believing what I claim to believe. I sometimes feel I have a lack of conviction. This article is going to be short and crisp. I hope it helps someone who is like me. I am being told that am not alone.

Diving in

In our walk with God, many of us face the daunting question: “Am I really called for His Kingdom?” This question can be deeply unsettling, especially when we witness others serving God with apparent ease and success. It’s easy to be engulfed by feelings of inadequacy and guilt, believing we are unworthy of such a calling. This struggle is often described as the imposter syndrome, a psychological pattern where individuals doubt their accomplishments and have a persistent fear of being exposed as a “fraud.”

The Struggle with Imposter Syndrome

For a long time, I grappled with these feelings. Whenever I saw others excelling in their ministry, leading worship, or making significant impacts in their communities, I felt a pang of envy and self-doubt. “Why them and not me?” I would wonder. This comparison often led to guilt and a sense of unworthiness, making me question if I was truly called to serve in God’s Kingdom.

The Burden of Guilt

This guilt was heavy and pervasive. It whispered lies into my heart, telling me that my past sins and shortcomings disqualified me from God’s service. I felt ashamed, believing that my small contributions were insignificant in the grand scheme of His plan. This constant comparison and self-criticism created a barrier between me and the peace that God intended for me.

God’s Intervention

In the midst of my doubts, God reached out to me in ways I hadn’t anticipated. Through prayer, scripture, and the encouragement of fellow believers, He reminded me of a profound truth: God doesn’t call the qualified; He qualifies the called. This revelation was liberating. It shifted my perspective from focusing on my inadequacies to embracing God’s grace and sovereignty.

Overcoming Doubts

Here are some steps that helped me overcome my doubts and embrace my calling:

Prayer and Reflection: Spending time in prayer allowed me to connect deeply with God. It was in these quiet moments that He spoke to my heart, assuring me of His love and purpose for my life.

Scripture Meditation: Reading and meditating on scriptures like 1 Corinthians 1:26-29 and Ephesians 2:10 helped me understand that God chooses the weak and the humble to fulfill His purposes, and that we are His workmanship, created for good works.

Community Support: Engaging with a supportive Christian community provided encouragement and affirmation. Fellow believers reminded me of God’s promises and helped me see my worth through His eyes.

Acceptance of Small Roles: I learned to appreciate that every role in God’s Kingdom, no matter how small, is significant. Romans 12:4-8 teaches us that we all have different gifts and functions, and each one is vital to the body of Christ.

Trust in God’s Plan: Trusting that God has a unique plan for me, even if it doesn’t look like others’, brought immense peace. Jeremiah 29:11 reassures us that God’s plans are for our good, to give us hope and a future.

The Heart Matters

Ultimately, God looks at the heart, not the outward accomplishments. He values our willingness to serve, our love for Him, and our obedience over grand gestures or visible success. As 1 Samuel 16:7 states, “The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”

Wrapping up

If you’re struggling with imposter syndrome, remember that God’s calling is not based on your qualifications but on His grace. Embrace your unique role in His Kingdom, no matter how small it may seem. Trust that He will equip you for the work He has prepared for you. Your worth and calling are secure in Christ, who doesn’t call the qualified but qualifies the called. Rejoice in the knowledge that God has chosen you, and let His love and purpose fill your heart.

May God’s peace be with you as you embrace your calling.