Struggles

Lack of Faith is Not Sin

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! As Christians, we often grapple with the ebb and flow of our faith. There are seasons when our trust in God seems unshakeable, and others when doubt creeps in, leaving us feeling guilty and ashamed. Today, I want to address a misconception that has caused unnecessary pain for many believers: the idea that lack of faith is a sin.

Let’s begin by acknowledging a simple truth: doubt is a common human experience, even for the most devout followers of Christ. The Bible is filled with examples of people who struggled with their faith, yet were still used mightily by God.

Consider Thomas, one of Jesus’ disciples. After the resurrection, Thomas famously declared, “Unless I see the nail marks in his hands and put my finger where the nails were, and put my hand into his side, I will not believe” (John 20:25). Did Jesus condemn Thomas for his doubt? No. Instead, He graciously appeared to Thomas, inviting him to touch His wounds and believe (John 20:27-28).

Or think about John the Baptist, who sent his disciples to ask Jesus, “Are you the one who is to come, or should we expect someone else?” (Matthew 11:3). This was the same John who had earlier proclaimed Jesus as the Lamb of God (John 1:29). Yet, in his moment of doubt, Jesus didn’t rebuke him. Instead, He sent back evidence of His ministry, affirming John’s faith (Matthew 11:4-6).

Even in the Old Testament, we see great heroes of faith struggling with doubt. David, a man after God’s own heart, cried out, “How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” (Psalm 13:1). Jeremiah, known as the weeping prophet, lamented, “Why is my pain unending and my wound grievous and incurable? You are to me like a deceptive brook, like a spring that fails” (Jeremiah 15:18).

These examples remind us that experiencing doubt doesn’t make us “bad Christians.” It makes us human.

So why do we often feel such intense guilt and shame when our faith wavers? Perhaps it’s because we’ve misunderstood verses like Hebrews 11:6, which states, “And without faith it is impossible to please God.” However, this verse isn’t a condemnation of those struggling with doubt. Rather, it’s an affirmation of the importance of faith in our relationship with God.

The truth is, God understands our struggles. Psalm 103:14 reminds us, “For he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust.” Our Heavenly Father is not distant or angry when we doubt. Instead, He draws near to us in our weakness.

Consider the father in Mark 9 who brought his demon-possessed son to Jesus. When Jesus said, “Everything is possible for one who believes,” the father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!” (Mark 9:23-24). This honest cry resonates with many of us. And how did Jesus respond? With compassion and healing.

The apostle Paul, writing to Timothy, gives us a beautiful assurance: “If we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself” (2 Timothy 2:13). God’s faithfulness to us is not dependent on our perfect faith in Him. His love and grace persist even when our faith falters.

In fact, our times of doubt can actually strengthen our faith in the long run. James 1:2-4 encourages us, “Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

So how should we respond when we find ourselves doubting? First, we should be honest with God about our struggles. The Psalms are full of raw, honest expressions of doubt and fear. God can handle our questions and uncertainties.

Second, we should remember God’s faithfulness in the past. The Israelites were often instructed to recall God’s mighty deeds (Deuteronomy 7:18-19). Similarly, we can look back on how God has worked in our lives and in the lives of others to bolster our faith.

Third, we should surround ourselves with a supportive community of believers. Hebrews 10:24-25 reminds us of the importance of meeting together and encouraging one another.

Finally, we should continue to engage with God’s Word. Romans 10:17 tells us that “faith comes from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word about Christ.” Even when we don’t feel like it, immersing ourselves in Scripture can reignite our faith.

Remember, dear friends, that God’s grace is sufficient for us, and His power is made perfect in our weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). When you find yourself in a season of doubt, don’t let guilt and shame overwhelm you. Instead, rest in the knowledge that God’s love for you is unchanging.

As Isaiah 40:31 promises, “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.”

May we all find comfort in God’s unfailing love and grace, even in our moments of deepest doubt. For it is often in these very moments that God draws us closer to Himself, proving His faithfulness and deepening our trust in Him.

Your Marriage Can Become Your Idol

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! My heart aches as I write these words, but I feel compelled to share my story. For years, I thought I was being a good Christian husband, pouring everything I had into my marriage. Little did I realize that in my quest for marital perfection, I had created an idol that was slowly pushing God out of His rightful place in my life.


The Bible warns us in Exodus 20:3, “You shall have no other gods before me.” Yet, how easily we can turn even good things into idols! My marriage, a beautiful gift from God, had become my ultimate source of identity, purpose, and fulfilment. I had forgotten the words of Jesus in Matthew 22:37-38, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment.”


Don’t misunderstand me – loving your spouse is not a sin. In fact, it’s commanded (Ephesians 5:25). But when that love surpasses our love for God, we’ve crossed a dangerous line. I found myself obsessed with being the perfect husband, taking pride in my abilities to fulfil my duties. I built my sense of identity, belonging, and purpose around my role as a spouse rather than as a child of God. Proverbs 16:18 warns, “Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” And fall I did. Despite my best efforts, I failed miserably. My marriage began to crumble, and I was left feeling utterly hopeless and helpless.


For six long months, I prayed fervently for God to fix my breaking marriage. But in His infinite wisdom, God was more interested in fixing me. He wanted to address the root of the problem – my misplaced worship and reliance on my own strength instead of His. As I wrestled with God, I was reminded of Jeremiah 17:5,7: “Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the Lord… But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.” I realized that I had been trying to do everything in my own strength, forgetting that apart from Christ, I can do nothing (John 15:5). My sense of failure was overwhelming, but it drove me to my knees in repentance.


Today, I stand before you, humbled and broken, yet filled with hope. I’m learning to surrender my marriage, my identity, and my purpose to God. I’m repenting for replacing Him with something He ordained but never intended to take His place. If you find yourself in a similar situation, take heart. Our God is the God of the impossible (Luke 1:37). He can restore what seems irreparably broken – not just our marriages, but our hearts and our relationship with Him. Let us remember the words of Psalm 73:25-26: “Whom have I in heaven but you? And earth has nothing I desire besides you. My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.”


As I continue on this journey of restoration, I cling to these truths. I invite you to join me in examining your heart. Have you, like me, allowed your marriage or any other good thing to become an idol? Let’s turn back to our first love, allowing God to take His rightful place on the throne of our hearts. In our helplessness, we find His strength. In our brokenness, we find His healing. And in surrendering our idols, we find true fulfilment in Him alone.

Without Christ, I Am Nothing

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! When I reflect on who I am, I see nothing but a wretched sinner. I can’t escape the overwhelming sense that everyone around me, no matter their flaws or mistakes, is somehow better than me. Their sins seem so small, so trivial, compared to the mountain of guilt and shame I carry. I have sinned, over and over again, falling into the same traps, repeating the same mistakes. Each time, I feel the crushing weight of my failure, the despair of knowing that I have once again fallen short of what God has called me to be. The shame is unbearable, and yet, in the depths of my despair, I find myself doing the only thing I know how to do—I run back to God, like a beggar who has nothing left, desperate for even a crumb of His mercy.

I think of the parable of the lost sheep in Luke 15:4-7, where Jesus describes the shepherd who leaves ninety-nine sheep to find the one that is lost. I am that lost sheep. I have wandered so far from the safety of His fold, strayed into dangerous and sinful places, yet He comes looking for me, again and again. The shepherd doesn’t scold or punish the lost sheep; instead, He rejoices when He finds it and carries it home on His shoulders. This is how God treats me. Despite my repeated failures, He doesn’t turn His back on me. Instead, He seeks me out, He finds me in my lostness, and He brings me back into His embrace. Not because I deserve it—oh, I know how little I deserve it—but because His love is far greater than my sin.

Paul’s words in Romans 7:24-25 speak directly to my heart: “What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death? Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord!” I am acutely aware of my wretchedness. I know that no amount of good deeds, no amount of striving on my part, can ever make me worthy. It is only through Jesus Christ that I am delivered, only through His sacrifice that I am saved.

I am totally undeserving of His grace. If I lived a million years, and did every good work imaginable, it would never be enough to earn His favor. But that’s the beauty of grace—it’s not something I can earn. It’s not something I deserve. It’s a gift, freely given, from a God who loves me more than I can comprehend. Like a beggar who knows he has no right to ask for anything, I grasp onto this grace with everything I have, knowing that without it, I have nothing. It is my only hope, my only lifeline.

I often find myself drawn to the story of the prodigal son in Luke 15:11-32. Like the prodigal, I have squandered the gifts that God has given me. I have turned away from Him, choosing my own path, chasing after things that only led to emptiness and despair. I have hit rock bottom, found myself in the mire of my own making, and realized that the only place I could turn was back to the Father I had rejected. And just like the prodigal, when I finally come to my senses and return to Him, I don’t find anger or condemnation. Instead, I find a Father who has been waiting for me all along, who runs to meet me, who embraces me, and who restores me. This is the nature of God’s love—undeserved, unearned, and yet, freely given.

But I know that this journey of returning to God, of being transformed by His grace, is a process. It doesn’t happen overnight. I am not instantly made perfect. I struggle, I fall, and I get up again. I sin, I repent, and I seek His forgiveness. And each time, God washes me clean, reminding me that my identity is not found in my sin, but in Him. It’s a daily battle, a daily choice to come back to Him, to allow Him to shape me into who He has called me to be.

When I say I am a Christian, I am not claiming to be righteous or blameless on my own. In fact, I know that I have no righteousness of my own. The accuser may point out my many sins, but he has no power over me because my sins have been taken up by Christ. Isaiah 1:18 speaks to this amazing truth: “Though your sins are like scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they are red as crimson, they shall be like wool.” This is the reality of what Christ has done for me. I am blameless not because of anything I have done, but because Christ took my place, bore my sins, and washed me clean with His blood.

And though He has every reason to cast me aside, He does not. Instead, He holds me close, He calls me His own, and He reminds me that I am loved. This is the miracle of grace—that God would look at someone as wretched as me and call me His child.

So when I declare that I am a Christian, I am not boasting of my own worthiness or goodness. I am simply acknowledging that without Christ, I am nothing. My identity, my hope, my very life is bound up in Him. I am a sinner saved by grace, a lost sheep found by a loving Shepherd, a prodigal welcomed home by a Father who never stopped loving me.

CHRISTIAN means “Without Christ, I Am Nothing.” This is who I am. This is my identity in Christ. I am not perfect, I am not sinless, but I am His, and that is enough.

My Ungrateful Heart

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! In our spiritual journey, we often experience moments of profound grace and divine intervention. Yet, amidst these blessings, we may find ourselves slipping into ungratefulness, failing to acknowledge the hand of God in our lives. The story of the ten lepers in Luke 17:11-19 serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of gratitude and the dangers of taking God’s blessings for granted.

The Miracle of Healing

As Jesus traveled along the border between Samaria and Galilee, He encountered ten men who had leprosy. They stood at a distance and cried out, “Jesus, Master, have pity on us!” (Luke 17:13). Leprosy was a devastating disease, causing physical disfigurement and social isolation. These men were desperate for healing.

Jesus, full of compassion, responded to their cries. He instructed them, “Go, show yourselves to the priests.” (Luke 17:14). As the ten lepers obeyed Jesus’ command, they were miraculously healed on their way to the priests.

The Response to Healing

 The healing of the ten lepers was a moment of incredible grace and divine power. Yet, out of the ten, only one returned to express gratitude. He threw himself at Jesus’ feet and thanked Him, and he was a Samaritan. Jesus asked, “Were not all ten cleansed? Where are the other nine? Has no one returned to give praise to God except this foreigner?” (Luke 17:17-18).

This response from Jesus highlights a troubling reality: the majority of those who received this miraculous healing failed to return and give thanks. This story challenges us to reflect on our own attitudes and behaviors as children of God. How often do we receive God’s blessings without offering our gratitude in return?

The Heart of Gratitude

 Gratitude is more than a polite response; it is a posture of the heart. It acknowledges our dependence on God and our recognition of His sovereignty in our lives. The one leper who returned to thank Jesus exemplified this heart of gratitude. He recognized that his healing was not just a physical restoration but a divine act of mercy.

When we cultivate a heart of gratitude, we align ourselves with God’s will and open our eyes to His continual presence and blessings in our lives. Colossians 3:15-17 encourages us to let the peace of Christ rule in our hearts and to be thankful. This thankfulness should permeate every aspect of our lives, from our prayers to our daily interactions.

The Consequences of Ungratefulness

 Ungratefulness can have severe spiritual consequences. It can lead to a hardened heart, spiritual complacency, and a diminished relationship with God. When we fail to acknowledge God’s blessings, we distance ourselves from Him and miss out on the deeper joy and peace that comes from a grateful heart.

Romans 1:21 warns us of this danger: “For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.” Ungratefulness can darken our hearts and minds, leading us away from the light of God’s truth and love.

Cultivating a Grateful Heart

 So how do we combat ungratefulness? Here are a few practical steps to cultivate a heart of gratitude:

Daily Reflection: Take time each day to reflect on God’s blessings. Write them down in a gratitude journal and thank God for each one.

 Prayer of Thanksgiving: Incorporate prayers of thanksgiving into your daily routine. Thank God for the big miracles and the small, everyday blessings.

 Acts of Gratitude: Express your gratitude through acts of kindness. Serve others as a way of showing your thankfulness to God.

 Remembering Past Blessings: Recall past instances of God’s faithfulness and provision. Let these memories fuel your gratitude in the present.

 Scripture Meditation: Meditate on scriptures that emphasize gratitude, such as Psalm 100:4, “Enter his gates with thanksgiving and his courts with praise; give thanks to him and praise his name.”


Wrapping Up

 The story of the ten lepers in Luke 17:11-19 serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of gratitude in our lives. As children of God, we are called to recognize and acknowledge His blessings continually. Let us not fall into the trap of entitlement or spiritual blindness but instead cultivate a heart of gratitude that draws us closer to our Heavenly Father.

May we be like the one leper who returned to give thanks, recognizing that every blessing we receive is a gift of God’s grace. And in our gratitude, may we find joy, peace, and a deeper connection with the One who loves us beyond measure.

Jesus Wept

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! There are moments in life when the weight of our burdens becomes overwhelming, and we find ourselves crying without any clear reason. Every little thing seems to trigger the tears, and even those tears feel minuscule compared to the unrecognizable pain residing deep within us. It’s in these moments of intense emotional turmoil that we may feel utterly alone, as if no one truly understands the depth of our suffering. However, there’s a profound comfort in knowing that Jesus, our Savior, understands our pain and sorrow intimately. The shortest verse in the Bible, John 11:35, encapsulates this powerful truth: “Jesus wept.”

The Depth of Jesus’ Compassion

The story behind this verse is deeply moving. Jesus arrived in Bethany to find that His dear friend Lazarus had died. Martha and Mary, Lazarus’s sisters, were heartbroken, and their grief was palpable. When Jesus saw Mary weeping, and the mourners with her, He was deeply moved in spirit and troubled. It was in this moment that Jesus wept. Despite knowing that He would soon raise Lazarus from the dead, Jesus still shared in their sorrow and pain.

This act of weeping reveals the profound depth of Jesus’ compassion and empathy. He wasn’t distant or detached from human suffering. Instead, He entered into it fully. Isaiah 53:3 describes Jesus as “a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief.” He bore our griefs and carried our sorrows, sharing in our pain and heartache. His tears were not just a response to the loss of His friend but also an expression of His profound love for humanity and the suffering we endure.

Our Tears Matter to God

When we are overwhelmed by our own sorrows, it’s comforting to know that our tears matter to God. Psalm 56:8 tells us, “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.” Every tear we shed is noticed by our Heavenly Father. They are precious to Him, and He holds them close, understanding the depth of our pain.

In a season of my life, I found myself crying uncontrollably, often without any clear reason. The pain inside was immense, and I couldn’t understand why I was so overwhelmed. During this difficult time, I came across the song “He Knows” by Jeremy Camp. The lyrics resonated deeply with me, and I found myself crying even more as I listened. But these were not just tears of sorrow; they were also tears of release and surrender.

A Bold Prayer of Surrender

The song led me to pray a bold prayer, one that I had been hesitant to pray for a long time. I decided to give up everything that was weighing me down, to lay all my burdens at the feet of Jesus. I realized that I didn’t have to carry the weight of my pain alone. Jesus invites us to come to Him with our burdens. In Matthew 11:28-30, He says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

This invitation is an incredible promise. When we bring our sorrows and burdens to Jesus, He promises to give us rest. He doesn’t minimize our pain or dismiss our tears. Instead, He offers us His presence and His peace, reassuring us that we are not alone.

The Transformative Power of Surrender

In my own journey, surrendering my pain to Jesus was a transformative experience. It didn’t mean that all my problems were instantly solved or that my pain disappeared overnight. But it did mean that I no longer carried the burden alone. 1 Peter 5:7 encourages us to “cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.” When we surrender our burdens to Jesus, we experience a profound shift. We move from trying to manage our pain on our own to trusting that God is with us, carrying our load and giving us strength.

Through this process, I found comfort in the fact that Jesus understands my tears and my pain. Hebrews 4:15-16 reminds us, “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet he did not sin. Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.” Jesus, our High Priest, empathizes with our weaknesses and invites us to come to Him with confidence, knowing that we will receive mercy and grace.

A New Perspective on Tears

As I continued to pray and surrender my pain to God, I began to see my tears in a new light. They were no longer just a sign of my suffering but also a symbol of my trust in God. Psalm 30:5 tells us, “Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” While our weeping may last for a season, God promises that joy will come. Our tears are temporary, but His joy is eternal.

Moreover, our tears can also be a testimony to others. They show that we are human, that we feel deeply, and that we rely on God in our moments of weakness. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.” When we experience God’s comfort in our pain, we are equipped to comfort others who are going through similar struggles.

Finding Strength in Weakness

Ultimately, the experience of crying uncontrollably and feeling overwhelmed by pain led me to a deeper dependence on God. I realized that in my weakness, His strength is made perfect. 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 states, “But he said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

This paradoxical truth is at the heart of the Christian faith. In our moments of deepest sorrow and greatest weakness, we encounter the transformative power of God’s grace. We find that His strength sustains us, His love surrounds us, and His peace comforts us.

Wrapping up

If you find yourself in a season of unexplainable tears and overwhelming pain, remember that Jesus wept. He understands your sorrow and invites you to bring your burdens to Him. Allow yourself to cry, to feel, and to grieve, knowing that your tears are precious to God. And as you surrender your pain to Him, trust that He will give you rest and comfort. Your tears may last for the night, but joy will come in the morning. Jesus, the man of sorrows, walks with you in your suffering and promises to transform your pain into joy. Trust in Him, for He knows your pain and loves you deeply.

Am I Abandoned by God

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! My heart is heavy as I sit down to write this article. It’s been a while since God has seen fit to bless me in the way that He used to, and it’s left me feeling lost and uncertain about His presence in my life.

I know that many of you reading this may be going through something similar – a period where it feels like God’s blessings have ceased. Maybe you’ve been praying for healing or provision, but it seems like nothing is happening. Or perhaps you’ve seen your ministry or business thrive, only to experience a sudden and inexplicable downturn.

As I navigate these uncharted waters, I’m reminded of the countless scriptures that speak to God’s faithfulness and love in times of trial. But even with all the promises of His goodness, it’s hard not to feel like He’s abandoned me.

Life can often feel like a series of ups and downs. As Christians, we may sometimes find ourselves in the midst of a storm, questioning if God has truly deserted us. In this article, we will explore some comforting biblical principles that can provide reassurance during times of doubt.

The Blessings Have Stopped

It started with little things – a gentle touch from His Spirit, a whispered promise in my ear, a subtle nudge to take a step of faith. But over time, those quiet whispers have grown silent. The blessings that once flowed so freely through my life have slowed to a trickle, and now it seems like they’ve stopped altogether.

I know that this is not unique to me – many Christians face seasons where God’s blessings seem to dry up. It’s as if He’s withdrawn His favour, leaving us feeling lost and uncertain about our future.

But God Remains Faithful

Even in the midst of this uncertainty, I’m reminded that God remains faithful. Despite my doubts and fears, He still loves me, still cares for me, and still wants to bless me. As 1 Corinthians 10:13 says, “No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind.

And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear.”

In times like these, it’s easy to get caught up in our own strength and abilities – to try to fix the problem or find a solution on our own. But that’s where we go wrong. As Psalm 127:1-2 says, “Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain. Unless the Lord watches over the city, the watchman stays alert in vain.”

The Blessings Were Never Ours to Begin With

I’ve been realizing lately that the blessings I thought were mine to begin with were never actually mine. They were always God’s – His to give and take away as He sees fit. And when He decides to withdraw those blessings, it’s not because we’re not worthy or good enough; it’s simply because He has other plans.

As Psalm 135:6 says, “Whatever the Lord pleases, that he does.” Even in the midst of our struggles, God is still working out His sovereign will. And if we can learn to trust Him and rest in His goodness, even when things seem darkest, then we’ll find true peace and contentment.

A Season of Humility

I’m not sure how much longer I’ll be in this season of feeling like God’s blessings have stopped. But I do know that it’s been a season of humility – a time where I’ve had to confront my own pride and self-reliance, and instead seek Him with all my heart.

As James 4:8 says, “Come near to God and he will come near to you.” And in Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus invites us to take His yoke upon us – to surrender our burdens to Him and learn to walk alongside Him. It’s not always easy, but it’s the only way we’ll ever find true rest.

The Blessings Will Return

And then there are times when God decides to bless me once again in a big way. When those blessings return, I’m reminded of His goodness and faithfulness – that He is always working out His plan, even when things seem darkest.

As Psalm 30:5 says, “Weeping may stay for the night, but rejoicing comes in the morning.” And in Galatians 6:9, Paul writes, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

The blessings will return – maybe not when I want them to, or in the way that I expect. But God’s goodness and faithfulness are always available, even when it feels like they’re nowhere to be found.

1. Understanding God’s Presence:

To begin addressing this concern, let’s first define what it means for God to be present in our lives. The Bible assures us in Matthew 28:20, “And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the world.” This verse highlights that God is omnipresent – always surrounding and supporting His creation.

So how do we reconcile feelings of abandonment with the promise of God’s constant presence? It begins by acknowledging our emotions but then seeking to understand how they might be misleading us. Recognizing God’s unchanging character can help us discern between our feelings and His unfailing love.

2. Examining Our Expectations:

As humans, we often have expectations for what our relationship with God should look like. Sometimes these expectations can clash with reality, causing us to doubt His presence in our lives. To avoid this, it’s crucial that we align our expectations with the truth of Scripture.

One example of this alignment is found in Hebrews 13:5-6: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses… As an example of how God cares for us.” This passage reminds us that God understands and empathizes with our struggles, offering comfort and reassurance during trying times.

3. The Role of Faith:

Faith plays a significant role in trusting God’s presence during difficult moments. Romans 8:38 assures us, “For I am convinced that neither death nor life… nor any other creation under the heavens can separate us from the love of God.” This verse demonstrates that nothing – not even our trials and tribulations – can break God’s bond with us.

In times of doubt or despair, we must lean on our faith to remind ourselves of God’s unyielding love. By placing our trust in His promises, we create a foundation for hope and reassurance amidst the chaos.

4. The Importance of Community:

Finally, let us not forget the support network provided by our fellow believers. As Ephesians 4:32 encourages, “Be kind and compassionate to one another… For we share in Christ’s sufferings.” By sharing our struggles with others who understand and empathize with our journey, we create a community that can help dispel feelings of isolation or abandonment.

Wrapping up

The feeling of being abandoned by God is something many Christians experience at some point in their faith journey. However, by understanding His omnipresence, examining our expectations, practising faith, and relying on the support of Christian community, we can find reassurance amidst life’s storms. Remember that you are never alone – God is always with you, guiding and loving you through every trial.

This article has been hard to write, but I hope it’s helped you see yourself in these words – if only for a moment. If we can learn to trust God in the midst of our struggles, then we’ll find true peace and contentment.

As Hebrews 13:8 says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” And that truth gives me hope – not just for tomorrow, but for all eternity. May you walk with Him today.

Why Satan Wants to Isolate You

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! Feeling isolated can be one of the most challenging and painful experiences we endure. Whether it’s physical separation, emotional withdrawal, or a spiritual sense of loneliness, isolation can leave us feeling vulnerable, disconnected, and weary. As Christians, we understand that this state of isolation is not only undesirable but also dangerous to our spiritual well-being. The Bible speaks profoundly about the importance of community, and there’s a reason for this. Satan, our adversary, seeks to isolate us because isolation makes us easier targets for his attacks. In contrast, God desires for us to live in community, surrounded by fellow believers who can support, encourage, and uplift us.

The Tactics of Isolation

Satan’s strategy to isolate us is subtle and insidious. He knows that when we are alone, we are more susceptible to his lies and deceptions. Here are some reasons why Satan aims to isolate us:

1. Vulnerability to Deception: When we are isolated, we become more vulnerable to Satan’s lies. Without the counsel and encouragement of fellow believers, we can easily fall prey to thoughts of unworthiness, doubt, and despair. Satan whispers lies into our hearts, telling us that we are alone, unloved, and forgotten. Without a community to remind us of the truth of God’s love and promises, these lies can take root and grow.

2. Weakening of Faith: Community is a vital source of strength for our faith. When we gather with other believers, we share our experiences, testimonies, and struggles. This sharing helps to strengthen our faith and reminds us of God’s faithfulness. In isolation, our faith can weaken as we lack the reinforcement that comes from seeing God’s work in the lives of others.

3. Increased Temptation: Temptation is often strongest when we are alone. Without accountability, it becomes easier to fall into sin. Community provides a network of accountability, helping us to stay on the path of righteousness. In isolation, we lack this support, making it easier for Satan to lead us astray.

4. Emotional and Spiritual Drain: Isolation can lead to emotional and spiritual exhaustion. When we are isolated, we carry our burdens alone, which can be overwhelming. Community allows us to share our burdens and receive support and encouragement from others, preventing burnout and despair.

The Power of Community

In contrast to Satan’s desire to isolate us, God created us to live in community. The Bible is filled with references to the importance of community and fellowship. Here are some reasons why God wants us to be in community:

1. Support and Encouragement: In Hebrews 10:24-25, we are encouraged to “consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.” Community provides us with the support and encouragement we need to persevere in our faith and live out our calling.

2. Accountability: Proverbs 27:17 states, “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” Community provides accountability, helping us to stay on the path of righteousness and avoid the pitfalls of sin. Through mutual accountability, we can grow in our faith and become more like Christ.

3. Shared Wisdom and Experience: In a community, we benefit from the collective wisdom and experience of others. Proverbs 11:14 tells us, “For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers.” By sharing our experiences and insights, we can learn from one another and grow in our understanding of God’s will.

4. Bearing Each Other’s Burdens: Galatians 6:2 instructs us to “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.” In a community, we can share our struggles and receive help and support from others. This mutual burden-bearing lightens our load and strengthens our faith.

5. Reflecting God’s Love: Jesus said, “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another” (John 13:35). In community, we have the opportunity to demonstrate God’s love to one another and to the world. Our love for each other is a powerful testimony of God’s grace and truth.

The Consequences of Isolation

When we feel isolated, the effects can be profound and far-reaching. Isolation can lead to:

1. Spiritual Drift: Without the anchor of community, our faith can drift. We may find ourselves neglecting prayer, Bible study, and worship, leading to a gradual weakening of our spiritual life.

2. Increased Anxiety and Depression: Isolation can exacerbate feelings of anxiety and depression. Without the support and encouragement of others, our struggles can feel overwhelming and insurmountable.

3. Loss of Purpose: In community, we find purpose and direction as we serve others and fulfill our calling. In isolation, we may lose sight of our purpose and feel aimless and unfulfilled.

4. Greater Susceptibility to Temptation: Without accountability, we are more likely to give in to temptation and sin. Isolation removes the protective barrier of accountability, making us more vulnerable to Satan’s attacks.

Embracing Community

To combat isolation and experience the fullness of life that God desires for us, we must actively seek out and engage in community. Here are some practical steps to embrace community:

1. Join a Church: Find a local church where you can worship, serve, and grow alongside other believers. Participate in church activities and small groups to build meaningful relationships.

2. Seek Out Fellowship: Look for opportunities to connect with other Christians outside of church. Join a Bible study group, prayer group, or Christian organization to build a network of support and accountability.

3. Be Vulnerable: Share your struggles and burdens with trusted friends and mentors. Vulnerability fosters deeper connections and allows others to support and pray for you.

4. Serve Others: Get involved in serving your community. Serving others not only helps those in need but also builds connections and fosters a sense of purpose and fulfillment.

5. Stay Connected: In our digital age, staying connected is easier than ever. Use technology to stay in touch with friends and family, participate in online Bible studies, and engage with Christian communities on social media.

Wrapping up

Satan wants to isolate us because he knows that isolation makes us vulnerable to his attacks. In isolation, we are more susceptible to deception, temptation, and spiritual drift. In contrast, God desires for us to live in community, where we can find support, encouragement, accountability, and shared wisdom. By embracing community, we can combat the dangers of isolation and experience the fullness of life that God intends for us. Let us seek out and engage in community, reflecting God’s love to one another and to the world.

The Fear

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! As Christians, we often find ourselves struggling with various forms of fear. Some may be paralysed by anxiety about the future, while others may wrestle with phobias or deep-seated fears rooted in past traumas. But amidst these many legitimate concerns, it’s essential to recognize that there is one fear that stands supreme: the fear of God.

In Psalm 111:10, we read, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” This verse highlights the vital role that reverence plays in our spiritual lives. When we approach God with a sense of awe and trepidation, we are acknowledging His majesty, power, and sovereignty over all creation.

A Life of Reverence

Reverence is not about being intimidated or dominated by fear; rather, it’s an expression of humility and submission to the One who is worthy of our worship. As the Psalmist declares in Psalm 2:11, “Serve the Lord with reverence and awe.” This command is not just a suggestion but a fundamental aspect of living a life that honours God.

Reverence involves recognizing God’s infinite wisdom, justice, and mercy. It means acknowledging His power to shape our circumstances, as well as our own mortality. When we approach life with this kind of reverence, we are positioning ourselves to receive guidance from the One who knows what is best for us (Proverbs 3:5-6).

The Freedom that Comes from Fear

Now, you might be thinking, “But isn’t fear something to be overcome? Shouldn’t I strive to be fearless?” While it’s true that we are called to trust in God and His sovereignty, this doesn’t mean we eliminate all forms of fear. In fact, the Bible teaches us that there is one fear that is essential for our spiritual growth: the fear of God.

In Hebrews 12:28-29, we read, “Since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken—let us hold it fast with gratitude; for this will lead to praise worthy of God. Therefore, receive Jesus as King and fear not.” This passage emphasizes the importance of recognizing God’s sovereign power and submitting to His authority.

When we live in reverential fear of God, we are freed from the tyranny of other fears that can control our lives. We no longer need to be bound by anxiety about tomorrow or yesterday; instead, we can trust that God is working all things together for our good (Romans 8:28).

The Difference between Healthy and Unhealthy Fear

It’s essential to distinguish between a healthy fear of God and unhealthy fears that can consume us. The Bible warns against fearing the wrong things, such as other people or circumstances (Matthew 10:28). These kinds of fears can lead to anxiety, worry, and even idolatry.

On the other hand, a healthy fear of God involves recognizing His power and authority over all creation. This kind of fear is not a negative emotion but a positive acknowledgment of our dependence on Him.

The Benefits of Fear

So, what are the benefits of living in reverential fear of God? First and foremost, it leads to a deeper sense of awe and wonder at His majesty. When we acknowledge His power, we are reminded of our own limitations and humility becomes a natural by-product (James 4:10).

Additionally, living with a healthy fear of God helps us develop a greater appreciation for His mercy and forgiveness. We come to understand that our sin is not trivialized but taken seriously by a holy and just God.

As we yield to this kind of fear, we also become more sensitive to the Holy Spirit’s leading in our lives. This allows us to discern His will more accurately and respond accordingly (John 14:26-27).

Wrapping Up

In conclusion, while it may seem counter-intuitive to speak about the importance of fear in a Christian life, it’s crucial to recognize that there is one fear that sets us free: the fear of God. When we approach life with reverence and awe, we position ourselves to receive guidance from the One who knows what is best for us.

As we learn to live with this kind of healthy fear, we are freed from the tyranny of other fears that can consume our lives. We are reminded of our dependence on God and come to understand that He is worthy of our worship and adoration.

May we strive to cultivate a life of reverence and awe, knowing that in doing so, we will experience the freedom and joy that comes from living in harmony with our Creator.

Hope and Faith in Wilderness

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! As I sit down to write this article, I am reminded of a place that is both familiar and foreign – the wilderness. It’s a place where many of us have found ourselves, whether it was during a season of spiritual growth, physical challenge, or emotional turmoil.

For me, the wilderness has been a place of darkness, where the light of God seemed distant and my own faith faltered. But in that same wilderness, I also experienced the tender care of my Heavenly Father, who guided me through the shadows and into His radiant light.

The Valley of Darkness

As we journey through life, we all face seasons of darkness – times when our circumstances seem bleak, our emotions are overwhelming, and our faith is tested. It’s during these times that we may feel like we’re wandering aimlessly in a desolate wilderness, with no hope in sight.

But the Bible tells us that even in the darkest of valleys, God is present. As Job said in Job 19:25-26, “For I know that my Redeemer lives, and he will stand upon the earth; though after my skin has been destroyed, yet from my flesh I will see God.”

In those moments when it feels like all hope is lost, we must cry out to God with David in Psalm 13:1-2, “How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?”

The Light of God

But even as the darkness closes in, God’s light begins to shine. As Isaiah wrote in Isaiah 9:2, “The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned.”

In that moment when all seems lost, God’s presence becomes our anchor. As Psalm 16:8-11 says, “I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken. Therefore my heart is glad and my tongue rejoices; my body also rests secure, because you will not abandon me to the pit, nor will you allow me to gaze upon wrongdoing.”

Faith in the Wilderness

As we navigate the wilderness of our lives, we are faced with a choice – to have faith in God’s goodness or to doubt His presence. As Hebrews 11:1 says, “Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.”

In those moments when it feels like the darkness is too great to overcome, we must choose to trust God’s sovereignty. As Job said in Job 42:5-6, “My ears had heard of you, but now my eyes have seen you. Therefore I despise myself and repent in dust and ashes.”

The Way Out

But even as the wilderness stretches out before us, God is not absent. As Jeremiah wrote in Jeremiah 29:11, “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”

In that moment when all seems lost, we must remember that God’s way out of the wilderness is not always easy or quick. As Psalm 40:2 says, “He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on solid ground and gave me a steady heart.”

Wrapping up

The wilderness may be a place of darkness, but it is also where God’s light shines brightest. It’s a place where our faith is tested, and we are forced to choose between doubt and trust.

As we journey through the wilderness of our lives, let us remember that God is always present, even in the darkest of valleys. Let us cry out to Him with David in Psalm 30:2-3, “O Lord my God, I called out to you, and you healed me. You brought me up from the depths of the pit; you set my feet within your paths.”

May we be those who trust in God’s goodness, even when all seems lost. And may we be the ones who experience the tender care of our Heavenly Father, guiding us through the shadows into His radiant light.

As Psalm 23:4 says, “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff comfort me.”

The Conceited Me

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“Father God, please guide me as I write this article based on Your Word. Help me to write this to glorify You, and let Your words bring clarity to those who seek You. May Your truth help people discern and embrace correct beliefs. I pray and seek everything in the name of our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. Amen.”

Hi there my Brothers and Sisters in Christ! As I sit down to reflect on my own journey with Christ, one thing stands out as a glaring reminder of the dangers of conceit in our Christian lives. I’m not ashamed to admit that for a long time, pride and self-righteousness masked themselves under the guise of “spiritual maturity” and “faithfulness.” In reality, they were choking the very life out of my relationship with God.

Looking back, it’s as if I was blinded by the fog of conceit. My self-perceived “success” in various areas of Christian service and ministry created a false sense of security, making me believe that I was above correction or criticism. I became so enamoured with my own perceived wisdom and abilities that I failed to listen to the gentle whispers of the Holy Spirit.

Conceit is a subtle yet insidious enemy that can creep into our lives unnoticed. It’s the notion that we are better than others, more knowledgeable, more spiritual, or simply more deserving of God’s favour. This mindset leads us down a path of self-reliance, where we trust in ourselves rather than Christ.

In my case, conceit led me to prioritize personal achievement over genuine humility and dependence on God. I began to focus on external validation – the praise and admiration of others – rather than seeking the approval of my heavenly Father. The more I sought to be recognized and esteemed by men, the farther I drifted from the simplicity and purity of devotion.

As a result, my Christian life became stagnant and barren. My prayers felt like mere exercises in self-justification, rather than heartfelt cries for mercy and guidance. My relationships with others suffered as I became increasingly isolated and self-absorbed. And worst of all, my relationship with God grew cold and distant, as if the very presence of His glory was shrouded by a veil of pride.

But praise be to our glorious God! In His infinite wisdom and mercy, He saw fit to intervene in my life, bringing me low and breaking my fall. It began when I encountered Scripture that pierced my heart like a sword:

“Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall.” (Proverbs 16:18)

“God resists the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (James 4:6)

These words, once mere abstract concepts, became a searing rebuke, exposing the deceit and self-deception that had taken up residence in my heart. I realized that my attempts to present myself as spiritually superior were nothing short of an affront to God’s sovereignty.

In a moment of profound conviction, I surrendered my pride and asked for forgiveness. It was as if the weight of my conceit had been lifted off my shoulders, freeing me from the shackles of self-righteousness. For the first time in years, I felt the warmth of God’s love and acceptance, untainted by human praise or recognition.

As I look back on that journey, I am reminded that conceit is a thief that can steal our joy, our peace, and our very faith. It is a subtle siren song that lures us away from the cross, convincing us that we are worthy of God’s love and acceptance without the need for sacrifice or humility.

But praise be to Jesus! He knows the snares of conceit all too well, having faced the ultimate temptation in the wilderness. And yet, He emerged victorious, His character unblemished by even a hint of pride.

In His mercy, He offers us the same opportunity for redemption. Will you join me in this journey toward humility and dependence on God? Will you let go of your need for external validation and trust in the One who truly knows your heart?

As we walk together in this pilgrimage, let us heed the wise words of Paul: “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” (Philippians 2:3)

May our lives be a testament to the transformative power of humility, as we seek to honor Christ and magnify His glory in our daily walk.